No false hope, but wanted to say that after beind divorced from my 1st H for 12 years and apart for 14, he told me this past weekend that he has regretted our D and his R with the OW.
Wow! Did that ever make me feel good inside. It was something that I never thought he would feel, let alone admit. The ending of our M was terribly bitter and a long expensive battle.
I could never understand how he could just walk away after 18yrs of marriage. Now I know it wasn't so easy for him afterall.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.