Yeah, there are many times when I want to thrash OM or at least cause some turmoil. The thing is what stops me is two things:
1) The law protects him. Like FIB I've been there, got a restraining order against me years ago because "She was afraid". Not that I DID anything. She was just 'afraid'.
2) In almost every instance where OM is a 'relationship' and someone has confronted them all that happens is it makes them stronger in their justification.
I do wish this was the 'old days'. I think if it was a lot different set of morals would be instilled in our WAS's and they would take family and us as serious responsibilities.
But this is now. And in the now the best we can do is get OUR house in order and fix the 50% that was our dysfunctions in the marriage so we can live better lives.
And that's what I'm doing. She can have her life. She's made it by choice so I wish her luck.
