For the Guy with Kids and a WW XV

[hopeful4her]

I don't know how you do it, discussing my feelings with my stbx last time when she said she loved me, and I told her I loved her too (back slide), threw me into a depression tailspin that lasted a full week. She made the decision to move out, be with OM and end our M and I'm telling her I lover her still - crap

I know you are open to reconciliation with your W, I don't know what is your best course of action to get her back, she knows you love her, you have shown over and over by your actions

What is it going to take for this woman to wake up

Jeff, I think that if the wife told ME that she still loved me, I would sh*t my pants and pass out!

I know it messed with you. I sometimes think that I am trying to hard to reconcile just so I can tell her to forget it. I'm done with her.

I think that we are in for a long haul. I am patient. wdid's sitch came around after 3 years. I see the same for us. Unless she oversteps a major boundary. Then it will be me to file on HER.

Who knows? I think if she becomes ill again, that might be a wake up call.