My WAW are probably about 30 days from our D (Texas is 60 days to uncontested D, no separation required) and about 30 days into the process as a whole.
Talk about a punch in the face. Perfect life to D in 60 days.
Anyway, she is staying at her parents (in their mansion), and everything is just peachy with her. I have been LRT with her for about 14 days, and she couldn't be happier it seems. She is upbeat on the phone whenever I talk to her (only about kid or D, I never initiate contact) and I'd swear from her tone and mannerisms that the spark is still there for us. It could be the fog talking as she has an ongoing EA (at least) with a guy from her work for at least 4 months, or it could be the fact that she really does want this to be a "friendly D". It also could be the she is pathological in her ability to put on a happy face, since she was apparently "so miserable for so many years" without anyone having a clue. She just seems so "normal" on the phone.
Question: Would it be a backslide to invite her to join myself and our son for a weekend of fun at a local nature park? It is an overnight trip, but the room I have reserved has 2 queen beds.
Or...should I just go with the boy and let her hear about it after it is all over?
H: 38 W: 36 S: 8 S: 5 M: 16 Bomb: 8/25/08 OM: 9/21/08 EA (Possible PA) with co-worker since 5/08 (at least...) Sep: 9/21/08 D Filed 9/23/08 My Situation
