I am not blaming BBJ for not trusting. I am pointing out why he needs to commit. No one could trust him as things stand. This is why the marriage is in crisis. His failure to commit is the weak link that will break the marriage. She cannot do her part while he waffles. I don't know how many years ago they got married. But it is a long time since he said he was committed, and they have built a life and a large family on the belief that he committed, only to reach this crisis point because he is not committed. There is no alternative to commitment. Not for a marriage to survive.
