Karen writes: Progress--when he used to do stuff like that I was upset for hours maybe even days so hopefully at some point it won't even bother me at all. The good news is that he is so horrible now as a dad and husband, that honestly I think D might be a relief, just like his moving out was.

I'm sorry your stbx upsets you but it sounds like you are not letting it get to as much. It's a bunch of crap that, because of the kids we will have to deal with these losers for the rest of our lives.

W41
M10.75 years
D9, D6, D6, S5
OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me
WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08
W files for D 07/18/08
Date I'll forgive W for A = never