H4H writes: Today, I just don't know what the hell is wrong with me. On the way to work, I decided to send the wife a text. "BTW...my passion? Its still there. For you, for the kids and for life again. Things that you NEED to know. I can't leave things left unsaid between us."

I don't know how you do it, discussing my feelings with my stbx last time when she said she loved me, and I told her I loved her too (back slide), threw me into a depression tailspin that lasted a full week. She made the decision to move out, be with OM and end our M and I'm telling her I lover her still - crap

I know you are open to reconciliation with your W, I don't know what is your best course of action to get her back, she knows you love her, you have shown over and over by your actions

What is it going to take for this woman to wake up

W41
M10.75 years
D9, D6, D6, S5
OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me
WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08
W files for D 07/18/08
Date I'll forgive W for A = never