I guess it's over

[Trixi]

Oh about SS... someone's got to have contact info for him, don't they? Grandparents maybe? I'd try to get his info from someone else.

The contact info IS my H. SS is moving in with him. (H picked him up at the airport yesterday..as far as I know.) SS has no job, no cell, etc. Maybe my daughter knows his email, but I'm not sure if he will still have it; he goes thru them like socks. I guess I can try that route; I just wish I could reach him sooner.

Dating someone else or certainly marrying someone else, yes, you need the D... but I think you can work on those other things first. Focus on mentally and emotionally moving on. The paperwork can come later if/when you're ready.

True enough. There will come a point, though, that *if* I even want to have the opportunity to get serious about someone, I may need that piece of paper. If *I* was looking for a long term relationship, I would avoid someone that was 'only' separated-regardless of 'sure' they were that they would be divorced in the future.

This will be quite the journey. I almost feel like I am about to enter my own MLC.