Theoden...I admire your strength on this. What really bothers me, still, is ..well...the acceptance in a sense, by society, of infidelity as a 'well it's going on everywhere with everyone'. I still ask myself many questions:
-is marriage a dated institution?
-are their REAL physiologically changes that occur that DO make monogamy difficult?

Dunno.

I still think that kids should be spared 'sordid details'. Yes...they need to know the truth. Agreed that you can only sugar-coat it so much. But, well...for me....someday..either over a beer of a long walk with my son....I will talk with him if he wants to know my side of the story...my daughter as well. Sometimes, I wonder if I should go back and print up all my posts...and keep it......or not.......

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;