No problem. It was my older daughter and her husband. they don't really talk to my wife. My MIL, I have cautioned her about constantly barraging my W with what she need sto do and come home. She has a couple and cals her daughter and every other time its this all over again.
The only time I really talk to them about this is wen they call me upset about my W. I just pass advice to them to help them, that was the intent. I understadn what you are saying and i will keep a tight lip on it from now on. I know I am starting to make mistakes, its just frustrating and juggling so many things and so many emotions makes it hard to hold my tongue. thanks for replying. If I wanted pats on the back i would talk to my kids about this. If I need a kick in the pants to keep me on track, well, thats why I am here. I don't throw the MLC term out there, just her being in general. This has helped them get through by understanding her confusion, if thats what it is. thanks for looking out for me, again, I need direction when mistakes get made, I can't afford to not give this my best effort of my life to get my life back.