I'm doing better today, but I'm still saddened by my XW's ability to simply throw our relationship away like it was a piece of trash. She's w/ a new boyfriend now (not the Snake - we all knew he'd never last) and they're doing their couples things. Our marriage to her was disposable and she has no regrets about it being over.
I even got this response from her today in regards to an e-mail I sent asking if we could work something out and not have to split up the dogs. She closed w/ this statement:
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...I don't like the idea of separating them either, but I also didn't want to get a divorce and I didn't have a choice about that. The boys will adjust. Grace has. I have.
Didn't have a choice? It is so unfortunate and sad at where she's at w/ all of this. Her denial runs so incredibly deep it is almost criminal.
I'm concerned about the choices she's making and their long-term effects on Grace. I want the best for XW, but as long as she refuses to accept any blame and as long as she continues to look for people to "complete her" when she first needs to complete herself, she'll always be a wreck.
So, it is still very sad, but I am better today. I talk w/ Jody tomorrow and she'll let me know how to handle things from here as well as whether or not to even respond to today's e-mails.
Talk to you all soon and will catch up shortly...I promise.
