i am the one now mentoring the family about the situation, she is not the same person you knew 10 weeks ago, she is someone else right now. she needs to find out who she wants to be, where she wants to be and with who she wants to be with. None of you can help her, guide her or even suggest to her what she needs to do. It is all about her.
I can't express enough just much that is likely to piss her off.
You can NOT talk to a MLCers family and friends like that and not have it get back to her. When she hears it, what she's going to receive is you saying that she's crazy and brother let me tell you, you are setting yourself up to get your face ripped off.
You can NOT crusade against MLC.
You have to sit back, shut up and know what you know and act accordingly. It is one thing to ask the family to try to understand and tolerate FOR NOW but you can't run this lingo all over town and expect that no one is going to tell her.
Tighten up or you're going to make this worse than it already is.
