SPM - Hope your read my last response to you on the old thread and things are still ok with you.
My day of flirting but not coming on was not very successful. Flirting went well, he was interested but not reacting. Then he made a comment about did I dress nice and wear sexy underwear for OM. I denied this as I have done 1000 times before. My EA did not become PA until final month and only on 2 occasions. I did dress better and took an interest in myself during the whole A but it was because I felt good, loved and someone was paying attention. It was not because I was trying to get him into bed.
I said to H that today I dressed nice for him!
Anyway H stopped the conversation by saying abruptly " enough of the conversation "
I went home and took D16 out. He rang 6 times to tell me something, none of which I got (as I was out and left cell at home ). Once he got hold of me he was in a great mood as one of our assets went unconditional on the lease freeing H up financially. Great news for him.
Later that night he dropped in as delivering S20 car off. As soon as I heard him arrive I went straight into the bath. Out of the way. He came into the bathroom to talk - something he has not done for years. Was very up beat. Made comment that he had not entered the bathroom in a long time. He left after a while.
This morning he text to see if I was awake and could he drop something in at home. I said fine but just leave it in the letterbox. Very interesting that he wanted to come up to house. Baby steps maybe but I will not get my hopes up. In fact gives me strength to do a bit more Dbing.
I was thinking that i would be okay on my own as long as he was friendly and happy . Is that telling about the relationship ?
