Lots of truth darts missed, yes. But, you said some things you wanted to. That's good.
I guess when i read it......you didn't want her to get the feeling that you are happy away from her and moving on, did you? I guess it sounded that way to me, but maybe it wasn't that way in real life.
h4h, she WANTS you to move on...it justifies everything, and allows her to move on too. You are the only one that is going to be fighting right now because she is conflicted and almost feels as if being with you is wrong (because she feels she doesn't love you). Since you guys are talking closely like this, why aren't you bringing up retrouvaille, books, ability to repair, going to that Fireproof movie.....something.......Yes, you tell her you have a life. Yes, you tell her that you are not sitting at home moping. You remind her that she is hurting her family by her choice, not you. You tell her that you see you guys as still married (you did get that in and I was proud of you for that)and you are waiting for her to realize all she is losing.
I wondered what was going on, but I do believe she is cake eating all the way. She is getting the best of both worlds.
