I might have a little bit of inner freak, or at least I'm willing to investigate that corner of who I am
She said when I went through her things in mid-July that we were finished and were going to get a divorce, but, that she didn't have time to pursue this until the kids were in school. I asked her to hold off until January as I was working hard on being a better dad and in hopes of time for DBing. I've asked her on at least two occasions before this, but, after she was screwing around if she wanted a divorce and her reply was "Ideally no." In my opinion, she will be both scared to death and relieved at the thought of divorce.
We had talked about shared custody meaning splitting the time spent responsible for the kids 50/50. She is in no place right now to take on the responsibility for having the kids at her house, but, we had talked about the kids staying in the family house and the parent's moving back and forth.
I'm not sure where things are going to end up, but, in at least the short term, I expect that things will continue as they are.
