Hi LD--One of the very hard things to do while DBing is to not set expectations for a response. It is VERY hard to do. Don't fix her brakes to get a response from her. You are setting your self up for tremendous pain. Keeping expectations minimal and doing things for the right reason keeps us sane (very hard to do, but really not harder than thinking we'll get an incredible response). Part of detaching....
It looks like this all started in early August and that isn't very long ago though I'm sure it seems like an eternity...This is a marathon, not a sprint so we all need to conserve energy to continue to stand for our relationships. Breathe deeply and try to let go for a little bit.
