there is nothing wrong, absolutely nothing wrong with helping him on the farm.

heck, my h comes over and i help him and vice versa with certain things around the house.

nothing wrong with any of it.

just help and afterwards, stay out of his way unless he asks for more help.

and i don't see anything wrong with just sitting around on the farm either and just talking casually.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19