I also agree with Daisy & Julia - Just send the dates email as he has asked for this. This is a very crazy period as your H is obviously very confused as to what he wants. All I can offer is to keep positive no matter what.
Keep your PMA and be strong. I know the two weeks feels like an ultimatum to you right now but you are thinking of it negatively...think of it as a positive...think of how you can use this time to prove him wrong. Prove to him that you are not "controlling" and that he can have a good time with you and feel happy around you.
