Thanks. I guess the struggle is that I have read in DR I think (it may have been a different book but I think thats the one), about a wife where she started DBing and was still living with H and it was a year before her H initiated a touch.....
Call me demanding, I can't live that way.
Not sure if I am impatient. I feel that way sometimes, I think, my kids have their mom and dad together again, why am I rocking the boat? But something doesn't FEEL right. I hear the tone in H's voice when he is on the phone with friends or his sister. I hear how he sounds talking to the kids. I don't hear that "something" when he is talking to me......
