I think that we have beaten this to death now, I think that everyone is making valid points.
Ulimately the outcome of this situation is up to lifeline and her H now.
((((lifeline)))


Me - 44
H - 44
M - 19yrs
together - 23yrs
D16
S8
EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07
H still @ home
Recovered!

"Do or do not, there is no try" Yoda