I am so sorry about your dad! Please know that he is still in my prayers, as are you, H, and the children.
I have to admit, I LOL at the putting the kids up for adoption comment. On more than one occasion, when someone has asked where my kids are, I tell them that I sold them at a charity auction, and not to worry, as i got a good price, too.
Try not to lock this thread so fast, so I do not lose you again!
SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7