Any, and I do mean any, advice is welcome. I want to do what is best for S - screw STBXH.
I think that's the key--focusing on what is best for your S.
I do let my H know about what's up with the kids. But usually just factual stuff like D is trying out for a play or going to attend a birthday party or things like that. Not really stuff like how the kids are doing emotionally or anything like that. I figure he can talk to the kids and find out that stuff himself. I do have very low almost zero expectations of H in re: to the kids and everything else. That way I don't get disappointed!!! Karen
