Originally Posted By: InLikeFlynn
This might not necessarily have been a bad thing. Think positive. You have inadvently stuck your finger up in the air to see which way the wind is blowing. Well your going to find out now!!! Nothing you said is anything she doesn't already know about how you feel. Should make for a interesting conversation.


I think you were right. My first thought is that she might have thought that I was sticking my MIDDLE finger in the air. Her reaction was more positive than I thought it was going to be.

I think that I was overthinking how we spoke. Ultimately, as long as she knows how I feel. I think she tends to believe that I am unable to move on. She has no idea. Before I left with the girls on Sunday the first time, she had admitted that she was grouchy and tired. Later, the conversation was leaning towards the wrong direction, but I made sure to steer it.

Like I said, I have no expectations. At least she wasn't bitchy about my text. I didn't intend for the text to be pursuing in any way. Just giving her some honesty and I think she took it as such.


Me 47, WW 38
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Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

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