I will say that you 2 sound like my husband and myself 5 years ago. A lot going with nothing actually working or changing. So, maybe it is time to try something different. Have you thought at all about Bagheera's 4 steps? Maybe a change would help??
I do totally understand how you feel though, as we are in very much the same boat. That is why I have decided to try them. Can't hurt at this point because I've done everything else under the sun.
I'm still having a VERY hard time biting my tongue, and I'm sure if he was here, I think Id be biting his head off, as I'm still frustrated at why this is so damn hard for him. I'm his wife, right? I'm not the wicked witch, in my opinion he should be able to talk to me........... arghh...... There I go again. lol Hard to follow my own advice sometimes.
Coming here keeps me sane, that's for sure. I'll be back later, just wanted to quickly post.
