I guess it's over

[Dom R]

I think back to OT's watercooler post and imagine the unwanted friend marching up and saying "If you want to be my friend, THIS is what you will do!" If I am of the frame of mind that I don't to be responsible to this person, having them DEMAND I act a certain way is going to make me *positive* I don't want to deal with them.

You're right. that would be totally inappropriate for "a friend". And also inappropriate for someone you are trying to impress, or attract.

However, does that describe your situation? No.
He's already attracted to you. He just doesnt respect you.