Wow Beth. You seem to have gained a lot of clarity from your session. Hopefully you can put the LRT into action soon (meaning, hopefully the house will sell quickly - asking for a miracle in this market I know).
It's hard to decide if your M is worth saving or not. I had to look at my H with a very critical eye, not with the love that I have for him in my heart. I hated what I saw and decided that so many of those character weaknesses had been there for our entire R and they weren't going to change. Those flaws are what eventually led to his straying. Zero moral compass.
You will find yourself further examining your entire R and picking out the things that you never liked. The key is to decide if those are complete deal breakers now.
Be strong Beth!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!