No matter what lifeline has done it does not warrant the kind of treatment she is getting from her H. My H hurt me more then any person has ever hurt...but you know it did take 2 to get us to were we were, sure he had choices and he made some bad decisions, and yes I struggle everyday with my feelings over this, and what he did. BUT at no time have i ever had a desire to make him feel like a piece of garbage, I have never wanted to exact my revenge. If I want my marriage to work then I have to let it go! and that's what lifelines h has to do, and if he isn't prepared to do that then decisions have to be made. I understand hurt and anger, boy do I understand that! But this is something more, this is just plain mean and lets be honest childish! So lifeline sweetie, you keep posting, and you keep vent here and we will support you the best that we can!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
