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Thurs I had to pick up the kids from him. When I pulled up the GF was cuddling on his shoulder on the front bench so I turned my head. He then knocked on my window. He began pressuring me about the D. Asked again if I was contesting it. When was I going to sign it. I kept saying I choose not to speak about it. I'm not ready to talk about it, etc. He kept pushing. I said again I would be fair. Says his lawyer wants to know. I said it took 5 yrs to get married, a divorce doesn't happen overnight. He kept repeating that he gave me a year. It was the 1 yr anniversary of when he left last year, I'm sure he knew it. So he asked me if I could aford to refinance. I said I didn't know so he was angry and said all bets were off. No deals. He said I don't care what happens to you. I said that was obvious and sped away. Now I am making other arrangements so that I no longer have to pick them up at his house on Thursdays to avoid seeing them as well as confrontation, I am tired of being pushed.