I read about the OW and your cottage. Ugh. My W.s parent had a house on Cape Cod. She told me I could visit it with the kids any time I WANT. Thanks, but how's never. Never works for me. As much as I loved that place (We went on our honeymoon there 22 years ago next week. The day BEFORE financial mediation). It does sound like you've found some serenity. Like me, you're a cynic. Whatever gets you through. I though smarmylawyerboss was a good name for the OM. You cut more to the chase with maggot. Love it. Pure, simple, unadulterated! OOPS. Bad word. Should be ADULTerated! Infidelity, along with bullies and religious zealots really top my list!
Buy my wine in a box these days. Quantity over quality.
