Lan - Bang on the first part and I'll never figure it out. She did honestly seem real keen but hey, it was good to have some time with someone albeit short lived.
2nd part - I've no real idea TBH. She seemed to be softening slightly, but then not really any major dealings with her. Some on Saturday where she was asking a lot, 'telling' me a lot about solicitor, divorce stuff and just trying to bait me but I kept it to the point calmly and left. Also, I couldn't go back now anyway, my head still says it would be right for the boys, but my heart says no. I do not like her, I probably haven't for longer than I realised but stayed for the wrong reasons.
All I want right now is my own place and car, but she is currently not helping me to do the first part. I think this could all start to get messy after mediation on 20th if I'm honest.