Donna - I hear your pain and can not imagine how hard it must be to move on with his parents so close to you. How can you detach? How can you change your focus to just you? He is no longer thinking about you, hon, he has moved on. How can you do this? I just want to see the best for you. You are such a beautiful soul and deserve better than to be dragged along. I hate that you still feel so much pain from his actions. You desrve better and once you finally let go you will get better. I know you love him, but the person who left is no longer him. He has changed, he has turned into an alien. Statistically speaking he left one relationship, what makes you think he will make this one built from deciet work? Most end miserable and the ones that go on to marry end horribly as well. You got the good years, the years where he was hopeful and had drive and wonder. He no longer has those things and is jaded. She gets the broken him now. He takes from her to feel good and she takes from him as well. Healthy relationships are built on giving, this is not their dynamic. This is why so many A relationships fail so often. Move on and know the this too will pass and you will be ok.
((Donna)) I just wanted you to know I was thinking of you.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
