H dragged me to C when it first happened and it was because of these sessions that I saw the A for what it was. The C also gave H the strength to carry on and make changes in himself.
That was when our roles reversed. He wanted out and i wanted in.
i wish i had chosen fidelity.
I am sure your wife does to. We know there is no going back, it is hard to look at the pain we have caused daily to everyone. ESPECIALLY the kids.
I know when A was first discovered i wanted tio hide. Did not want marriage or anything. It was the cowards way out. It took a lot of encouragement and strength from to turn back to the marriage. You need to help your wife find that courage. She is only finding temporary relief in what she is doing now. Cant find from your past. It always catches up.
