In retrospect, it's been amazing to see her go up and down and sideways the first 7 months. Then in july by random chance OM shows up in her life.
Now she seems calmer / happier but sort of uncomfortable around me. Doesn't call or talk to me much unless she has to. Makes sense, she has someone paying attention to her who probably makes her feel good about herself.
My kids accept that this is the way it is.
I guess I've learned my lesson here. Be smart about who you marry but more importantly make sure that you take care of your own needs first, not last.
Because if you don't, you won't survive. And what's worse, if you did choose someone who wasn't strong they will bail.
she's just like her mom. what a surprise.
I'm done, really done. Going dark as best I can given the situation. So I can heal and move on with my life.
