Well let's put away the pity wagon shall we. Trust me it is not going to attract anyone to your side after a while. In fact it will begin to be a repellent. I did everything wrong, I have been where you are. I didn't find this site until ex had already filed. So I was alone failing miserably at trying to get him to see how crazy his logic was.

What started to change things for me was realizing that this has nothing to do with me or you in this case. Sure you probably had issues in your marriage just like everyone else but he made the choice to cross the line. So that is why you need to make yourself happy. Work on making yourself into the person you always dreamed you could be. Hugs.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory