Whooeee! I see a little, teeny, tiny bit of ice might be melting. I think the way to your w's heart is through the projects she wants done.
How goes the bedroom? Dont quit until its all done. Soon you'll be ready for the closet. You could do it.
Keep it going. Next time you go out, and she asks, try to not be as forthcoming. Just say, oh I was out and about. A little shopping and things. Real casual, ya know?