(((((Kalni))))), You continue to be so strong trying to handle it all on your own. Is your H aware that your dad's condition has changed and may now be critical? H is a DAM and may need it spelled out for him that you NEED him to watch his kids so you can spend time with your dad and supporting your mom. I really hope your friends can help you out with this.
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"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz