it definitely takes 2 to tango. My WAW has been seeing a therapist for about a year or so I imagine she is dealing with her issues in her own way. I am DEFINITELY working on my own issues.
as far as her pushing the big D, she filed a week after she found out about my online activity. She left the night she found it and never came back - with the exception of gathering her stuff while I've been at work. I havent heard anything else from the lawyers.
I feel some frustration with her not communicating but it hasn't turned to anger - yet. I do miss our dog - which she took when she left.
