I am actually okay. I look at it this way: either I am going to get over him and be fine, or he is going to come to his senses and I will be fine. Either way, its a win win situation.
And an 8000/year raise really helps!!!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Well thank you! I can't believe I have come out on the other side. It was not so long ago that I felt my world revolved around this man. Now I realize that it doesn't. With everything I have gone through in the last year, it has made me a different person. It has made me a stronger woman. I am coming out of the financial nightmare, being able to face the future. It is completely empowering.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I am so happy for you!!!!!!!!!! I'm so glad everything is improving for you. Even your DAM situation seems like it is being handled with dignity and grace. You are awesome! Send some of that this way would ya?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Miska, it is a state of mind. I am tired of crying, and being depressed. I am tired of walking on eggshells. I figure it this way, right now, I have nothing to lose. It's already gone, so why not focus on what I have versus what I don't have???
You know, its okay. It is a pattern with him. The thing is, I am getting tired, and angry, at the pattern.
But he is not going to get off that easy. He wants the divorce, fine. But he is going to have to file it. I don't think he really will, because he is so used to having me do everything. Well, this time I am abdicating.
My future looks bright, and I am going to focus in that.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
