But,,,,, I live 4 hours away, and the no contact means that I am punishing him for bad behavior,,,,, he is being a real stinker about spousal support. All arranged, no court endorsement yet, but he is with holding...... I should be no contact,because I am suppose to be mad. But the card, would be tough to handle, that would be nice when he is being ugly,,,, see what I mean? contact would be a 180 for me.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
