That's entirely up to you. There are some here that have been DBing for more than 2-3 yrs. Others do it for awhile, really get the GAL aspect and realize they don't want to work on it anymore. I've been here ALMOST 1 yr. DBing and ending it, being indecisive, etc... It's got to end at some time though. If both parties are never willing...they just are never going to be.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
