I hope Dom is still hanging around because I am very curious to hear a little bit more about his idea.
I do agree, though, that my H *is* trying to avoid me, so it would probably do no good to make demands on him and in fact, only galvanize his position.

I am stopping the Spanish because it was intended for us to use on a trip to Spain. And that ain't happening. If I were to learn a different language, my first choice would actually Italian.
So, I just cancelled the Spanish lessons (thank goodness you mentioned it because I forgot) and I am going to look into Italian because I would LOVE to go to Italy.
Spain is good, too, sure, but if I am going to be going on my own, I pick Italy.

But before I get to go on any exotic trips, I need to SELL SOME HOUSES. Holy LORD, I am freaking out!! I feel like I am in a string of bad luck right now. People around me are selling; UGH!


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing