I guess it's over

[Trixi]

Okay-- I hear--
But I don't know exactly WHAT to do.

Jody told me to go dark. Leave him be; don't contact him. She thinks that he will be in contact with me and that I should be upbeat and get the heck off the phone. (So busy with GAL and all that.) She suggested that since he is quite obviously attracted to me, that he will be back in touch.

Yes, I know it seems like you have "told him already".
You need to tell him again. Probably in written form. He's a man. Short attention span, and forgetful


Now is the time for you to set rules for him, under which he may have the privilege of your company.
If he does not wish to respect you, and your feelings, then he does not deserve to be with you.

He is waiting for you to show him that you deserve respect. Dont disappoint him again. Stand up for yourself now.

Aren't we WAY past this point? I mean, he made it crystal clear- he doesn't want to be married. (Never said the D word, though.)
He doesn't want me to "count on him". So, really, if I go to him and 'demand respect or else' it seems a little bit like shutting the barn door after the horse got out.

How do I take the ball and start running with it???

THANKS!!!!
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