Dreams come bouncing in your head

[AliSuddenly]

"You need someone who will treasure you for who you are, let you be everything that you are and love you for it" ... Lisa, please marry this guy! Do it for me. You remind me of my sister, she is dating this bum who keeps storming out. Meanwhile, she is friends with a fantastic guy, who has a phd and wants children and thinks shes amazing... its like she cant see what the universe has put right under her nose.

I think your H has behaved very badly. As all of our WAS's have. But he has behaved badly AND continues to date the woman he has been dating since last July (?). So I wonder, especially as Jody is also my DB coach.. what if you actually spoke to him honestly? Like I sent my (carefully written, with no emotion) email. What if you stated that you are aware he's been in another R for a year now and that you love him but wish him well... I dont know what words you could use, but if you are going to have another session with Jody, could this be something you could ask her about?

I'm not suggesting an ultimatum, I'm suggesting that seeing as he has clearly gone on holiday with his gf, that maybe the time has come to close the chasm between you, created by dishonesty.

Just a thought. Sorry you are having a pants time. PLEASE dont go to the sperm bank! You are lovely and intelligent and drop dead gorgeous... its a waste. Anyway, CEO has great genes...

Ali xxxx