Dude...nds......wtf. actions, not words. open your eyes man...seriously. LOL. good job!
Neil, Buddy!!! There opening...slowly and not every day...but they are opening.
Been following your thread. Sorry I have not piped in but just don't have any advice...have to admit, given the same sitch, with the kids and OM....don't know which way I would turn.
I completely understand your quandary, and would be going through the same thing, but listen to everyone....you and the kids first..that's all you can have any control over right now.