Everyone keeps telling me she is going to hit rock bottom in a few years just as they are saying to you. I have seen this movie before with my bother and best friends ex's - everything bad in their lives that can blame on their ex H's who are both good men.
Thing is that whether they hit 'rock bottom' or not isn't going to make a difference in how we live OUR lives. They don't want us any more, for whatever reasons they've come up with, and that's ok.
We don't 'need'. we desire and expect.
So, I'm just dropping the rope. I pretty much am hurt still, but I don't really think I want her to come back.