I totally understand. And life is just not fair sometimes. I was with my H and totally supportive when he lost his parents. My Mom was so good to him for over 30 years - he never even came to her funeral and our D was final the day after. UGH!
Do you have any friend or hospital support who can help you look after your children for a bit each day so you can spend that time with your dad and supporting your Mom. When my Mom was ill - it meant as much to my dad for me to be there. But I had a handicapped child and another still at home. We just all do the best we can. And try not to feel guilty as we all do.
KUDOS to you for being the best daughter and Mom! Now you know what Kudos are!
Barb
A Kudu is a gazelle type animal. I am NOT sending those to you! LOL!
