Am I crazy or what? Is it me giving up....puting myself out there? I felt big time backsliding yesterday and with the text. I plan on trying to have as little contact with her as possible. I do have to get with her on the gifts that we discussed for D6 and the stuff for her party.
Can I really expect that she would let OM set up a moonbounce at the party? She HAS to realize that I would go batsh*t if I saw him there.
Crazy? I think we are maybe all a tiny bit crazy to not just walk away from our spouses. But I am too! And I think it's crazy in a good way: we're maybe too loyal or something.
Yeah, I think you and I both backslid yesterday, but overall I think you and I are still going in a better, forward direction overall. I think everyone backslides occasionally (except Puppy of course ) and we should just try to do better. I will never wash H's laundry again and am trying to cement that in my brain! And you could probably do stuff like that, too. I think we should have as little contact as possible except about the kids like you mention. Don't let them cake eat and think they'll always have our friendship or whatever plus the OP as well.
Logical people wouldn't consider something like having OM do something like that, but you know I don't think we're dealing with logical people, so you might have to have a conv. about that with her when you're feeling strong and calm b/c I think she might think like that or at least she sounded like she was!!! Karen
) and we should just try to do better. I will never wash H's laundry again and am trying to cement that in my brain! And you could probably do stuff like that, too. I think we should have as little contact as possible except about the kids like you mention. Don't let them cake eat and think they'll always have our friendship or whatever plus the OP as well.