The stupid thing is that I cant be with him because I have my kids to take care of and xH has "a game on Saturday he needs to work for..." I cant be with him. It's either me or my mom, someone has to stay with the kids. My mom of course must be there... Great, huh? Thanks. I am bit lost right now. This is happening too fast and too soon. And I hope it wil change. I hope something will change.