CME66--just wondering if it really is necessary for you to remind me that it was me, not my husband, who removed the panties. I do think you have good points, but to tell you the truth, although I may not be able to explain my actions, I do remember the actions themselves.
However, I don't tune you out when you reply -- you make a good point. I didn't see my words as trying to "justify" my affair; rather, I think I'm trying to "explain" it -- perhaps now that you mention the "justification" I can see how my husband can get upset, thinking I'm trying to give reasons why my actions were ok.
I'll think about this for a while and see if I can't communicate myself better when talking to my H about the reasons for the A. Thanks, LL
