Yes, I think you need to work doses of reality in with the nicey-nicey stuff. You were absolutely correct in the car, but chances are not good that he was really listening. Your problem is there is only one person trying to heal your marriage, and then there is the other person being dragged along with his heels digging in the ground. You are not likely to get far going like this. He was supposed to have made his decision on the weekend whether he was going to work on the marriage or not. Now it is 5 weeks later, and he is still not fully onboard. Perhaps one of your Retro advisors would speak to him. It's all a lot more effective coming from another person, not you.
